Bivi Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne Ki Sunnaten Wa Aadab
⭕ AAJ KA SAWAL NO.3353⭕
Shauhar ke liye buvi ke sath zindagi guzarne ki kya sunnaten aur aadaab hain?
Us baare me badi kotahi ho rahi hai.
🔵JAWAB🔵
حامدا و مصلیا و مسلما
Qura’an wa hadees ki roshni me shauhar ke zimme jo bivi ke huqooq aur sunnaten hain woh hasbe zail hain :
- Shauhar ka bivi ke samne achchhi haalat me rehna (Saaf suthra khushbudaar rehna)
- Shauhar ka apni bivi ko wohi cheez khilana jo khud kha raha ho.
- Aurat ko usee meayar (catagory) ke kapde pehnana jis meayar ke khud pahan raha ho.
- Narmi se baat karna.
- Bivi se husne sulook karna aur usse pahonchne wali takaalif ko bardasht karna.
- Ghar ke kaam-kaaj me bivi ka haath batana.
- Jaiz wa’adon (promises) ko poora karna,
- Ek se zyadah biviyon me baraabari karna,
- Na munasib kaamon par pehle naseehat karna,
- Nasihat se fayda na ho to sone ki jagah ko alag karna.
- Agar yeh tariqah bhi mufeed saabit na ho to hudoode shareeat me reh kar kuchh halki si pitayi karna,
- Aurton ko munh par na marna,
- Bivi ki saheliyon aur rishte daron ka ikraam karna.
- Us ki izzat kare,us se muhabbat kare,
- Shareeat ki had me rehkar us ko razi rakhne ki koshish karen.
- Us ke gharwalon ko achchhe naam se yad kare,un se milta rahe Mukhtalif mavaqe aur taqreebat-khushi ke waqt un ki dawat kare.
- Us ke Raaz aur aib ko na khole.
- Zaroori deenee muaamalat ki taleem dena.
- Raat der tak ghar se bahar na rehna.
- Burayi me mashhoor aurat ki sohbat se mana karna.
📕KAAMYAB IZDIWAJI ZINDAGI KE SUNEHRE USOOL SAFA 288 se 293
و الله اعلم بالصواب
📗SUNANO A’ADAAB SAFA 272
ISLAMI TAREEKH :9 RABEEUL AWWAL 1445 HIJRI
✍🏻Mufti Imran Ismail Memon Hanafi Chishti.
🕌 Ustad e Darul Uloom Rampura Surat, Gujarat, India.